How can you understand God is actually making you marriage?

How can you understand God is actually making you marriage? Will they be displaying the newest fruit of one’s Holy Soul, such as like, pleasure, comfort, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, softness, and mind-control? (Galatians 5:22-23) Or will they be demonstrating the new works of skin, such as for instance sexual immorality, impurity, idolatry, hatred, discord, …